So when is an appropriate amount of time to ask?   I wanted to see a provider and emailed the booking agent, submitted the screening info, was told that I was screened and okay.  I then asked for an appointment and said I would be interested in Greek if the provider offered it and was called a creep, weirdo, and told never to contact again.  This was to the booking agent mind you, not the provider herself.  

I feel like post screening something simple like that should be okay.  Am I crazy?