I’ve reached out to a few thru twitter/Snapchat. There have been hits and misses. Full disclosure, I’ve dated a couple IRL so know more of the older ones.
tried it with Kate Bloom, set up a deposit and date. Ghosted and blocked after deposit.
now I’ve done it differently. If they have Amazon wishlist will send them gifts with my Twitter handle and phone number. With the following. “Enjoy this gift from your fan. If you are willing to video chat, here’s my number along with twitter handle.” This has recently worked twice with two of my favorites and it’s a weekly video meet. They’ve both said when I’m in their town to let them know.
Another has become my SB after reaching out to her thru SC. Funny thing is that she lives in my city and we hang out quite often.